Originally Posted by Captainmeme
Capt, you got to tell your buddy how you feel about it all. I know us guys hold back our emotions. They get all bottled up when we don't let em out. Maybe you say "Hey John, you know I could have used a break at the helm last time we sailed together." Then again maybe he reads this board and he'll figure it our on his own.
Actually, the next day when he asked if rather than drive me as promised back to my jeep which i left in Miami, if he could just rent me a car instead, i did tell him how I felt , and as we finished the sail and he would return my friendly patient suggestions with whiny dickish attitude, I told him to watch his tone and mind his manners, so we are on the same page.