TJK,
I am not sure if you were replying to me or pops. I will answer for a bit.
As far as us, yes, we are live aboard. You are correct about the berth being an issue, which is why I personally do not like Pullmans. I think I said that in a post on the 150k boat? Not sure. Anyways, I totally agree. The positive of a aft cockpit is you get a wide, comfortable berth. However, if you forget and jump up in the middle of the night, you will leave some scalp behind. On our 400 and 380, there were comfortable places to sit in the cabin to read. This is important.
The V is the most comfortable place to sleep on a boat, in my opinion. The island-type berth in the V is easy to get in/out of from both sides. That is what is on the 350. Take a look...
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As far as the size, I would be happy with a smaller boat, personally, if I did not have kids. Kids change the entire equation. However, one of my alltime favorites is the Hylas 54 and Mason 54. Take a look at this beauty and tell me you would not be happy!!!
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- CD