TTom, please see the drwaing bellow.
End of your problems. The wind will want to move the bow to Stb, and all you do is let the wind turn it for you.
If you mess the approech, just back up and go again. Try it and let me know. You just have to turn your boat around and reverse it. That is easy and you will be coming HOT, so go easy on the engine. Also...KEEP THE BOAT STRAIGHT IN STRONG WINDS OTHERWISE THE WIND WILL CROSS YOU!!
I moor like this many many times. Its easy