I feel your pain ...
Looks like it's time for ...
A whole new suit of sails, not just a genoa.
Thorough bottom cleaning.
Performance sailing classes for you, the wife and kids.
Bring some neighborhood kids along to sit on the rail.
And, if all else fails, a huge fan for the foredeck. I've read that works.
I can't believe all these guys are trying to talk you out of spending $$$$$ for another half-knot of VMG. What's happening to this place?