Mike, welcome aboard, but your own self introduction is not nearly enough to get you in the Pearly Gates here.
So we need to see what your female s/o looks like before we proceed. Pics of her on a boat wearing something from Reef Brazil will propel you to the head of the class, post haste. But we're a generous, caring, giving bunch here and will consider all photos that may be, shall we say, less than revealing. Though this may slow down your advancement in the class. Please consider your next reply as the most important descision of your life. 'Cuz it's really that serious...........
Rick