Another vote for a Scot (we owned #4188). Setting the mast alone will be a chore for you but it can be done. They have (or had) a promo video showing a small girl setting the mast using the trailer winch.
It's a little bit wet in a chop but never harried or overly disturbed by them.
Slightly smaller and still a nice sailor is the Precision 15. Not as robust as the Scot, but not as pricey, either. About half the $.
Charlie P. P31-2 #80 CATNAP
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