[sailingdog]

Originally Posted by john232

My Wife is ill enough that we can NOT continue to live in the BVI because she will need on going health care in the USA where are insurance and the complicated nature of her illness can be best used to increase her quality of life and we can at least live aboard our boat and sail USA waters.

Having been through something similar myself, I can understand your need to move. However, your first post was rather skimpy on details and it sounded like she had just taken ill and was in Texas, rather than it being a more serious chronic issue and that she had moved back to Texas. Context changes a lot.

My Wife has already went home to TX and we miss each other alot and cannot really afford to hire a Capt. But the Beneteau First is in excellent condition and made the trip here and can make the trip back. Of course I will pay some expenses, and if crew needs some fun time (diving, sight seeing, please can we stop here or stop their) than I will accomodate. This is a very dissapointing time for me and I would appreciate it if you didn,t make this into some sick joke as to how I am trying to screw someone for my own selfishness and arrogance.

I wish you the best of luck in finding crew. I would highly recommend you look at sailopo.com for crew. It would help if you said what your expected departure date and arrival dates were.