[josrulz]

I would recommend crewing on some passages if possible. Even if you don't have time yet available to cross an ocean, you can crew on shorter passages down the coast or perhaps Bermuda. This type of experience is really invaluable. Check ads at local marinas, local sailing publications, and of course the national magazines as well.

As others have mentioned, it also helps to read, read, read.

I agree it can be done if you put your efforts into it.
-J