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What's interesting about this thread is that now DS IS an experienced cruiser. She's now the person she was looking for in her first post. And I think that's Chall's point...and why I'm interested in her perspective.

The thing is, there are certain areas in sailing that are indeed empirical. And these things can actually HAVE informed experts because they ARE empirical.

However, so much of sailing is extremely subjective. No one can own these areas...though many times certain chumps think they do. What is safe and practical to one will be dangerous and impractical to another.

These experts that dispense advice dripping with cynicism and condescension, especially in subjective areas, are maybe entertaining on some level...but are hardly worth taking seriously. Then when group-think comes in behind them - it gets ugly.

I disagree with you Chall as to what SN "is". There are lots of great sailors on here giving great advice without the vitriol. The cynicism and negativity have really chilled as of late. There's a lot to learn here about sailing...especially for newbs.

So, with your epiphany, when you're not out actually sailing, you'll find this place a lot more chill than it was a year ago when guys were trashing DS about being someone that would dare to abuse a dog while at the same time offering up recipes to cook and eat one.