Again, thanks for the replies. I do still watch my posts; they are linked to my email. Anyway, I've been spending alot of time in the library reading about hull design and cruising boats. The general consensus, as is on this forum, is that full keel boats are more forgiving in heavy weather. This, and taking into consideration the size of boats I am looking at. (27-32).
I was on a fast track to gaining actual experience on the systems that make up a sailboat. Many people have replied to my offer to help them for free. As luck would have it though, I had an injury that took me off my feet for awhile. Surgery has a way of doing that. Things are looking up though and I will resume shortly.
Now, back to boats. Maintenance is a non issue, I already am very good with engines, glass, wood and electrical systems. What I don't know is rigging, sails and masts. Working on it though.
I really like the Triton's, they appeal to me in virtually every way. In addition, a very generous sailor in South Florida has offered to take me sailing in his Triton so I will get to actually feel the boat. I believe this will give me a good idea if I really want one or not.
Sailing classes are on hold (injury at first but now due to the winter) but they will resume in the spring. Regarding the small boat; I do have a Hobie cat to play with when it gets warmer. Though they are overpowered and difficult to trim, I think it will at least pacify me while I restore and rebuild the Triton; provided I actually like them. Though it will be like driving a Corvette and then jumping in a Focus.......
Regarding the "Go small, go simple, go now"....I wish, however, I retire in six or seven years. At the ripe old age of 40....

. I've done well in the Army and my retirement will be more than enough to sustain whatever ambitions I have. Especially if those ambitions are to see the entire world before I die...using the paid for 27-32' sailboat as the means. Between a paid for house, investments and that retirement, my dream is an achievable reality. Plus some...
Having stated all of that, I am in no real hurry. I want to do it right. the great thing about this is that by doing it right, I will inevitably make quite a few friends along the way. Through their experience, and the classes, I believe I will actually achieve my dreams.
Now I hope you understand why a solid boat is of great concern to me. It is a variable that I want to take out of the equation. In my travels I am certain that through mistakes, bad luck and just nature in general I will inevitably get caught in some rough weather. I'd like my boat to stay with me.