Join Date: Aug 2009
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My situation is probably different - when I work as a captain, everyone calls me captain. I assume you're talking about being on your own boat with your husband though.
I defer to the person who owns the vessel/knows more about seamanship or that boat, but I don't know how any person who also owns the boat and is just as skilled can tolerate others not considering her to be equally in command.