Ok I don't feel so crazy now.
He is 60 (i thought when he said old man he meant old man.
I don't consider 60 an old man
)and talking about an Atlantic crossing and has never sailed before. I am 40, never sailed before and was considering a Lake Ponchartrain crossing. I have no choice I am going to have to do it if I get the Cal 25 I was planning on getting. It is on the northshore, I live on the southshore and I certainly am not driving back and forth 30 min a day to work on my boat.