Ladies, how do you really feel? You finally get some time at the helm, feel like you have a handle on things, running a reach, tacking, etc...
Then he suddenly assumes whatever it is he's assuming and "takes the wheel" He just doesn't seem to consider that you may really not be quite ready to relinquish the wheel so quickly.
Lets hear it! The good the bad and the ugly!
Now on the flip side... you don't give up the helm.. does he pout? shout? act like he's lost because he has to man the winches?
(why does Denise come up with stuff like this?)