The Nonsuch 30 Ultra would be terrific for you I think. More expensive than anything else mentioned here but that is life. They were fairly expensive when new and have held their value better than most.
Back in the water in Grenada - with new main and #2 and cockpit canvas (Santa came early). Will spend the winter and early spring in the Caribbean and then head to Bermuda and the northeast US. Still trying to decide if we will bring the boat to Canada, either in 2015 or 2016.