North Sea Harbor
My wife's family has a condo over there. We often anchor or moor at Sag Harbor and they pick us up.
I am trying to get the courage to anchor there, but it looks so thin.
A few years ago I was fishing at Towd's point and watched a 30 footer ground at the inlet. The water was warm, so I was able walk in close to him and grab an anchor to help kedge him off.
I will certainly take you up on your offer for your brother's assistance - will send you a PM with my info.
Many thanks, Mike