Hey Newport, before you do anything hasty, may I suggest something, well...less hasty
Have you thought about joining Sailtime for a year before you decide on another boat? The base at Newport has 33, 36, 38, and 44 foot Hunters, all virtually new. If your wife can't fall in love with sailing after a season on of those, your probably out of luck.
There is one in Newport:
Newport Beach Sailing at SailTime Orange County