Hi everyone,
Thanks for all of the great feedback. I guess I am leaning more toward the offshore capability, as I'd rather have too much boat than not enough. My only concern with some of the heavier, full-keel boats is that I might not be able to maneuver them well.
I have been considering a Cape Dory and should have added it to my list. I think the Pac Sea is out of price range. The Tayana is also very nice, but looks like it might require too much maintenance due to all of the wood.
The Pearson looks good, and if I were going to keep to the coast, I'd consider it. I really can't afford to buy 2 large boats over the next 4 years, so I need to go straight to the right one. The Tartan also looked good as a coastal cruiser, but I am not sure about the keel/centerboard that seems to be on most in the size/price range I am looking. I think I'd rather have a fin keel and a skeg-hung rudder or full keel.
As far as the singles thread -- I'd rather not be a single-hander, so I second that suggestion
It's very hard to find someone who would be willing to give up life on land.