One aspect of our (this) online community is someone can ask for advice and ideas and it won't be long before such advice and ideas are posted.
The task for any person who places a post is to review, consider, and evaluate the responses that can best help.
I enjoy readings the posts because responses are wide in scope. From non sensical to brutally expressionistic - in my opinion.
And to think such a community like this did not exist decades ago. Look how far we have come to make connections.
For this particular post, I encourage both parties to continue to work together toward a solution. Each of us finds our path, and so it will be here for our OP.
Best to you. Continue to seek out resources.