There's an S&S 42 in SFO you can single hand and fits all your requirements...if it's still for sale asking $42,500. I have had the 37ft version for 25 years and it's bullet proof, modern design, and fast. Designed buy S&S after Intrepid (twice Americas Cup winner) and built by Chris Craft. Check it out.
chris craft sailboats for sale by owner.