Originally Posted by chamonix
I'm with sloop on this, she's my wife, not some schmuck I couldn't care less about. She does not have to obey me, but she would not be making that trip. I'd deal with the consequences including divorce afterwards.
Well, you really must love her to make that sacrifice.
If an argument is based on one spouse wanting to sail into eel-infested waters, all alone, in the dark of night, directly into a storm, along rocky shoals and the other wanting their spouse to live another day results in divorce...
Maybe someone has their priorities a bit skewed.