Re: Hard choices..
"Any advice? I mean she steala from my wallet when I sleep,"
And you leave the wallet where you know she will pilfer it.
That's enabling her. That's co-dependency. If any of this is news to you let me add one more voice ot the choir: GET PROFESSIONAL HELP. This is not the place for it.
Whether you are in a boat or a motel doesn't matter, you need professional help to make some hard choices about the domestic problem first.