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Re: An Informed Opinion about the Bounty

Originally Posted by PCP View Post
Specially if, as it was stated by the OP, the Captain was a friend of his.

I can easily dispense such a kind of friends


There is an old expression/question in response when someone asks a "friend" for an opinion. "Do you want the truth (i.e. my honest opinion) or do you want to stay friends?"

A "true" friend will tell their friend the truth if it is in the friend's best interest even tho' it may be hurtful/disappointing/undesired. Sometimes, the "truth" is hurtful. But. The consequences of untruth, even moreso.

Where there are no adverse consequences, one can argue that leavening the "truth" is acceptable social courtesy ("Why shoot, you don't look a day over 35" )

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