Greetings All. This is my first post on your site. My first look around the forums looks like this place is a wonderful source of info. Good work.
Anyway. I am a 40 years old and lifelong powerboater. My current boat is a 26 ft cuddy cabin. I was just about to buy a significantly larger boat (35 -38) 2 years ago, so that I could spent multiple days overnight and partiallly live-aboard in some comfort...........
Then I met this girl

....... Two years together and this sailor has converted me. We did a "learn to sail" course in the Virgin Islands this winter and I am currently crew on a sunday team up here in Cleveland. I am having a ball.
So now I would like to buy my first sailboat. I don't want to screw it up too badly.
I have looked at a couple of Catalina 380s and 400s. There seem to be mostly Catalina and Beneteau on the market here.
I want to be able to live comfortably for three to maybe 5 or six days at a crack. Would like a vessel that can be safely piloted by myself (green) and my girlfirend (moderately experienced, but never had the helm). Price range is from 100k (ideal) to 200k ( that would hurt a bit).
I am looking for advice on what to buy, what *not* to buy, how to go about the process, and general information.
Thoughts?