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Husbands vs Wives when looking for a boat

We've been sailing off and on for 5 years: mostly day sailors and friends boats. We are finally in a position to get our own boat, a weekend short duration coastal cruising boat in the 36’+ range. It’s taken a lot of convincing, but the admiral has finally relented, and even embraces the idea. So, about 4-5 months ago the search begins in earnest. After several false starts on the buying process (mainly due to indecision about size, $$$, usage), we arrive at a formula that we think work’s for us.

A pattern has emerged, I read, I research, I investigate. When we arrive to inspect a prospective boat, I look at the guy things, like sails, cockpits, sailing lines of the boat, rigging, condition, etc. My wife skips all the sailing BS and immediately heads to the interior, she sits awhile soaking in the ambiance (livability) of the salon, sniffs the head, checks the overhead clearance of the aft cabin, lies on the bed, calculates if she’s going to hit her head if she pops up too fast, determines the claustrophobic quotient.

Invariably, she is so-so on the boats I love, the ones with the best sailing reviews. Every time we pass a Hunter, she says, let’s look at that boat, I cringe just a little. For me, Hunters take a bit of adjusting to the ascetics, especially the freeboard.

She loves the Hunter interiors. After my above decks inspection, I finally make it downstairs. On the Hunters, there’s a big smile on her face. So what’s the best compromise here? Don’t get me wrong, I don’t dislike the Hunters, although their ability to retain value seems pretty suspect. What’s a deck hand to do?
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How many $ ?
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You're wife does have a point as you'll be at anchor more often than you will actually be sailing. Interior comfort is just as important as the safety of the boat, if you're not comfortable inside, it will make for a long weekend, especially when it rains. I understand how you feel about Hunters and I'm glad my wife understand why I don't want one. There are so many good boats for sale that you'll find one eventually that you can both agree on. Go to www.yachtworld.com and look through all the 36+ boats and make a pros and cons list from there.

A happy wife is a happy life after all. Good luck.
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If you can, get your hands on some data showing actual sale prices for comparible Hunters vs.other production boats. Without that, you are just reacting to questionable or biased information. Aesthetics are sometimes more important to our wives than to us so good luck.
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That's a great analysis pbpme, and one most married sailors who've bought sailboats together can relate to. It truly is an inigma.

In the end, if we buy the boat that most pleases her, we end up as a deckhand to a floating condo, subservient to the Admiral. If our boat choice is forced upon her - we more often become solo sailors.
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How many $ ?

We are in the 90-130k range. I'm flying to LA this weekend to see a H380, if it passes muster, I'll probably have it surveyed and is a strong contender. Locally, a late model H36 just popped up, very clean boat, without any addons. What I've found with Hunters, is people either love or hate them. Its hard to argue with all the owners though.

Last weekend we were in Puget sound for the Seattle boat show and I thought I had found a perfect compromise, a near new Catalina36, unfortunately, only the C42 caused her to smile (short of the Hallberg-Rassy 42, and the Sabre 38). I loved the C42 too, just a bit out of our price range.
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Look for a C380.
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Look for a C380.
I thought you were dead.??


My thoughts.
Hunters seem to have the most volume down below.
They build the boat around the interior.
We were on a Catalina 47 at the last show we went to.
My wife loved it, talk about volume.
Hunter and Catalina seem to have the most room down below.

Just so you know...... a Bene 361 would be right in your budget.
I don't know if its available in this size range, but I would look to find an island berth for your wife. You might find a Catalina with one.
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We are in the 90-130k range. I'm flying to LA this weekend to see a H380, if it passes muster, I'll probably have it surveyed and is a strong contender. Locally, a late model H36 just popped up, very clean boat, without any addons. What I've found with Hunters, is people either love or hate them. Its hard to argue with all the owners though.

Last weekend we were in Puget sound for the Seattle boat show and I thought I had found a perfect compromise, a near new Catalina36, unfortunately, only the C42 caused her to smile (short of the Hallberg-Rassy 42, and the Sabre 38). I loved the C42 too, just a bit out of our price range.
If you're in LA this weekend, you should check out the Long Beach boat show. I saw them setting up last weekend and it looks like a pretty nice selection of new boats to check out and I imagine they'll also have a fair number of used ones for sale also. Here's the link: http://www.internationalsailandpowerboatshow.com/
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Analyze it all you want. If the wife wants a Hunter you are getting a Hunter.
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