Bitter End does have hobies and small monos for the guests, the property is very nice but very expensive to stay. We find BEYC a bit snooty for our tastes.
Leverick Bay has more reasonable accomodations and even affordable villas.
There are center console boats and dinghies for rent there.
Nick and Monica Willis would take grea care of you:
Leverick Bay Resort & Marina
You can get some crewed charters that would be the best bang for the buck, really get around and check out the islands!
Mike and Jean Beswick offer crewed charters on Jeannius, a very sweet Privelege 435 with al the goodies. We chartered Jeannius in '07 when she was a bareboat, loved the boat!!
Tony and Melody offered crewed charters on Aristocat II, a nice Island Spirit 40 cat. They are reasonable in cost and can accomdate your group for a great time:
BVI Catamaran Charters with Utopia Sailing
My freind Capt, Jim has a very nice Privilege cat, Blue Moon, super comfy, he is offering some great specials and very good rates right now.
Sailing Blue Moon
Tell 'em saildoggie sent 'Ya!!