Tropic-
I have owned an older Hunter 33 and have a 49 on order. One of the benefits that you may find with the Hunter vs. an older boat is the fact that the newer hunters have all been designed to be sailed short-handed. Being retired I'm assuming that your older, and this would be a real consideration for you and the admiral . The real attraction of the newer hunter boats is their "livability". The 41ds is a real comfortable boat and sails well too.
I don't plan on crossing oceans but will spend ample time coastal sailing up and down the east coast including Bermuda and the Caribbean. I looked at and spoke to a number of 41DS owners and would have gone that route until I saw and sailed the 49.
Regarding the B&R
Rig. It's a proven technology and has been around the world. Unless your going to race your boat and want to play with the bend in the mast, no issues. Besides, I don't think Seldon Spars would want their name associated with bad engineering. I received a document from Hunter explaining the
rig and the theory behind it. In actuality, it was pages out of the salesman’s playbook but it made sense.
As Cam and others have said, to paraphrase, get the right tool for the job. If I was going to cross the Pacific and go into the Southern Ocean, I’d be on a Valiant.
Dave