
02-23-2010
|
 |
Telstar 28
|
|
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: New England
Posts: 43,315
Rep Power: 11
|
|
It might help if you were to learn how to write and speak English properly. Literacy is under-rated... and being literate is rather helpful when trying to communicate. While some of the issues may be due to the differences in the vernacular between British English and American English, a lot is not.
To clarify the situation:
She owns a 36' sailboat, which she loves.
You own a 21' sailboat, which she doesn't like.
You want to make the 21' romantic enough to attract her to spend time on it—when clearly she thinks it is too small and uncomfortable.
You want her to move aboard the 21' boat with you.
She certainly isn't going to move aboard a 21' boat, if she isn't even comfortable to overnight on it...
You need to get your priorities straight. Is spending time with her your priority? If so, then you need a bigger boat. Trying to convince her that the Corribee is the right place for her to be, overnight, much less to live on, is a lost battle IMHO.
You can beat your head against the wall over and over
__________________
Sailingdog
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Telstar 28
New England
You know what the first rule of sailing is? ...Love. You can learn all the math in the 'verse, but you take
a boat to the sea you don't love, she'll shake you off just as sure as the turning of the worlds. Love keeps
her going when she oughta fall down, tells you she's hurting 'fore she keens. Makes her a home.
—Cpt. Mal Reynolds, Serenity (edited)
If you're new to the Sailnet Forums... please read this To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts..
Still—DON'T READ THAT POST AGAIN.
Last edited by sailingdog; 02-23-2010 at 08:04 AM.
|