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Honestly though, I hope I didn't offend anybody with my last post. I was just having a little fun.
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Thanks for the info about the kid's harness. My wife and I have a new boat and a baby on the way. The boat gets here before the baby, but we've got our work ahead of us. Getting the boat is one way for us to spend more time together as a family, cruising. I see it as having fewer "real life" distractions so we can just have fun at our own place scoping out the world and all it has to offer us.
I wish you luck with the bringing together thing while they are young. In our case it seems to pull us apart more then bring together as having an older boat it needs a fair amount of love and that is hard to do when you have a little one around as fiberglass, paint, tools, ect are not really great for them at that age. Once you get out on the water that may be a different experience!

Now that my youngest is 4 I'm thinking its going to be better this year but still makes it hard to get boat projects done.

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Re: Cruising w/ Kids: Don't leave 'em behind!

Well this will be my first post so here goes...
Being a little different (maybe) its just me and the four kids, and I wanted to have a proper sailing holiday for years, trully love the sea, and crewed in my younger days.
Anyhow long story short, I/we (the kids and I) found ourselves in this position of just myself and themselves and after a lot of struggles could finally afford a holiday so we went on a charter boat for 2 weeks. We loved it but to make sure it wasn't just fond memories we went again, and again, I loved it and more importantly the kids loved it even more, so now we are buying are first boat and going to try and make use of it whenever the kids have time off from school/college.
If I am 100% honest, I was terrified of taking them on the charter boat, but wow, it gave them a self of importance by each of them having there own jobs, a belief in that they can do things for themselves and more importantly, made us even closer as a family.
So as a five some were going to spend the summmer crusing around the Med as best we can, because I know one day, it will be just myself, as they will all have there own familys and they will be doing there own things, so whilst I can my little lot will go whenever I have the time.
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I thought they meant literally. Once we stopped for lunch on the Norfolk Broads, and left the dog behind. After 10 mins cruising someone noticed that the dog was missing, and we re-traced our steps. Poor thing was standing on the dock waiting for us.

So I'd suggest a crew audit at every departure. Count them.

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Well this will be my first post so here goes...
Being a little different (maybe) its just me and the four kids, and I wanted to have a proper sailing holiday for years, trully love the sea, and crewed in my younger days.
Anyhow long story short, I/we (the kids and I) found ourselves in this position of just myself and themselves and after a lot of struggles could finally afford a holiday so we went on a charter boat for 2 weeks. We loved it but to make sure it wasn't just fond memories we went again, and again, I loved it and more importantly the kids loved it even more, so now we are buying are first boat and going to try and make use of it whenever the kids have time off from school/college.
If I am 100% honest, I was terrified of taking them on the charter boat, but wow, it gave them a self of importance by each of them having there own jobs, a belief in that they can do things for themselves and more importantly, made us even closer as a family.
So as a five some were going to spend the summmer crusing around the Med as best we can, because I know one day, it will be just myself, as they will all have there own familys and they will be doing there own things, so whilst I can my little lot will go whenever I have the time.
Our family holidays as a kid were always on the Broads. That's when I started sailing, in a little gunter rigged dinghy. Anyway maybe you've planted the seeds and when they grow up they'll think about starting to sail again.

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Re: Cruising w/ Kids: Don't leave 'em behind!

I would like to think, we will have maybe 6-10 years as a family, then they go to University and marriage etc and I will have a few years of just myself sailing happily away in to the sunset (lol, best plans of mice and men) and then slowly they will, return for holidays on the boat with the grandkids (again mice and men). But whilst they can come why not, there good kids and I am as proud as punch of them.
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