Really robust quick disconnects, with multiple contacts, aren't gonna be found at your local Rat Shack store. And sometimes not even at the marina.
You can try Mouser.com, Newark Electronics (online) or Digikey.com to durm some up. The terminal strips are your most likely and inexpensive solution. If you can find the commercial ones made by
www.bulgin.co.uk under the "BUCCANEER" brand, they're great stuff. High power ratings and multiple pins.
As a couple of the guys point out, using silicon grease on the fittings to prevent corrossion should be mandatory.
If you do buy an unusual fitting for this task...make sure to buy at least one spare, since you probably will never find it again if you need one.
One "good enough" solution can be to use "trailer
harness" wiring plugs, they're common and inexpensive, the same ones used to connect a trailer's
lights to your car. Limited to 4 poles per connector, but cheap and robust and easily available. Not gonna be tinned wire though.