My Westerbeke 27b has a electric
fuel pump installed. I won't answer all the OP questions but will tell how mine is wired.
It is mounted on the engine, between the primary filter (80 micron) and the engine mounted secondary(20 micon) which is installed after the
pump. There is an additional third filter (10 micron) installed directly before
fuel goes to the injector rack. It is the highest part of the engine and
fuel system.
MY
pump turns on as soon as the ignition swith goes to the start position (you can hear it kick on and run). I have a rubber booted push button to press that fires up the pre-heat (8 seconds or so). All in all this gives the
pump time to get up to speed pushing 25 gallons per hour thru the system.
Fuel not used to run the engine (1.2 gallons at 3600 RPM) is returned to the same tank it came from, or the other tank if I forget to put the valves in the right place.
If, for example my port tank was empty I could polish my starboard tank by switching the
pump on (not starting the engine) and having the valves set to dump the
fuel into the port tank. 18 gallon tank, 40 minutes later I have clean, prefiltered
fuel in my port tank. For that reason I genrally try to fill one tank, polish it, and run from the 'clean tank' as much as possible, in theory I have at least double filtered my
fuel - in actuality the
fuel passes thru the filters many many times before it is burned.
My entire system is self bleeding and requires nothing after a
fuel filter change than simply turning it on and waiting about a minute to clear air out. I've never had an air lock. I have had a
pump go bad (electrical connection) and I carry two spares onboard. One spare is mounted to a board with filters and valves installed so as to make a portable polisher that I can also use to entirely replace my filtering and pumping system in less than 5 minutes by simply connecting the hoses inline with the current system. If necessary I can run directly from a jerry can and dump excess right back to another can.
One time of having no engine in a squall is one time to many for me, never again.