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Re: Who is divorced because of sailing?

Andrew65, is your boat's name The Other Woman? It has to be!
Shnool, your daughter is going to RULE racing in that boat. Your boat is awesome- love your Youtube vids!

I am very lucky. My wife supports me unconditionally on all things boat. When I get depressed about the amount of money and work it takes to improve it, she motivates me.
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Re: Who is divorced because of sailing?

I'm pretty sure that boat ownership and family life are not always compatible.

If you must have your sailboat and you both love the water ... the only way to 'present' the idea of boat ownership is as a romantic getaway on the water that even your kids can enjoy. Much less expensive than waterfront property (most of the time) and don't forget to mention moonlit sails.

If the idea is presented as being good for your relationship, really...it's for her (really) ... how could she say no?

It's guess I'm saying that it's all in the 'packaging'.
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Re: Who is divorced because of sailing?

Not an answer to this specific question, but we found in our travels that almost every couple (with very few exceptions) we met doing serious cruising were in a second marriage. It did not seem to matter whether they from North America, Europe, Australia, Brazil, you name it.
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Re: Who is divorced because of sailing?

My wife is equally excited to have a boat. She loves sailing, and even working on the thing. Go figure, I think I've got a winner (as if there were a doubt).
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Andrew65, is your boat's name The Other Woman? It has to be!
Shnool, your daughter is going to RULE racing in that boat. Your boat is awesome- love your Youtube vids!

I am very lucky. My wife supports me unconditionally on all things boat. When I get depressed about the amount of money and work it takes to improve it, she motivates me.
Actually, I bought Matsya after the event. My kids love it and have the chance to experience all things sailing, the water, and nature. Next to my buoy, we have memberships with a kayak club and enjoy that too (plus their gym and laundromat for me). We are becoming closer because of it (literally) and they are becoming avid readers instead of getting lost in the boobtube or the computer.

Cruising for me now isn't about distant shores, but about selling the idea of it to them to find out what's over the horizon.

...plus, it annoys the shite out of their mother. All the kids talk about is their dad's boat.
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My wife is equally excited to have a boat. She loves sailing, and even working on the thing. Go figure, I think I've got a winner (as if there were a doubt).
Sounds like you're off to a good start and welcome to Sailnet!
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Re: Who is divorced because of sailing?

In the Azores a sailor friend got divorced because his wife slept on the wrong boat, ....and liked it. Does that qualify?
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Re: Who is divorced because of sailing?

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I'm pretty sure that boat ownership and family life are not always compatible.

If you must have your sailboat and you both love the water ... the only way to 'present' the idea of boat ownership is as a romantic getaway on the water that even your kids can enjoy. Much less expensive than waterfront property (most of the time) and don't forget to mention moonlit sails.

If the idea is presented as being good for your relationship, really...it's for her (really) ... how could she say no?

It's guess I'm saying that it's all in the 'packaging'.
It's interesting how different people approach boat ownership. I'm the one who thinks ahead to the Next Boat. I spent months researching, asking questions, looking for owners who could answer questions, thinking of what our goals are. Then I prepared in my head a "presentation" that, rather than sugar coat, began with the biggest negative which was the initial cost of the boat, even used. During our discussion, before I got to (mental) bullet #3, he said "Why don't we just buy it new?"

Giving it some thought, if things were reversed, I, too, would just like the facts presented to me rather than a watered down "package." Makes me feel like we're in it together.
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In the Azores a sailor friend got divorced because his wife slept on the wrong boat, ....and liked it. Does that qualify?
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It's interesting how different people approach boat ownership. I'm the one who thinks ahead to the Next Boat. I spent months researching, asking questions, looking for owners who could answer questions, thinking of what our goals are. Then I prepared in my head a "presentation" that, rather than sugar coat, began with the biggest negative which was the initial cost of the boat, even used. During our discussion, before I got to (mental) bullet #3, he said "Why don't we just buy it new?"

Giving it some thought, if things were reversed, I, too, would just like the facts presented to me rather than a watered down "package." Makes me feel like we're in it together.
Thanks for posting Donna. Do you feel guys (who are generally the initiator for a sailboat) tend to sugercoat it when buying one?
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