I've dreamed of owning a sailboat longer than I can remember when I started wanting one of my own. My wife has given the nod that its now time to take all that squirreled away money and go and buy one. Partly for her own sanity from hearing me question and re-question what our wants, needs, and budget are. My research, excitement, ups and downs of wondering if it will ever be possible (boats are expensive it turns out)
Last weekend a boat popped up from an old guy near me. More sq footage than we expected to ever own at our budget by 7ft LOA and I think he's just ready to downsize his life. I took a look and can't find any apparent critical issues. Engine and sails look great.
My issue is now I am finding myself paralyzed by my own doubts. Once reasoning says ok and the heart needs to kick in, how are you supposed to know the boat you're looking at is the right one? I'm afraid I've gotten myself stuck in an endless loop of what if. Have you experienced this?
What is rattling in my head:
+ The boat is older, so it needs some TLC both inside and out. It is, however right in my price range. Is it possible my expectations are off because of seeing too many new boats at boat shows?
+ The sleeping arrangement isn't ideal for a family of 4 but I can't afford a larger boat and monohulls kind of only have a few layouts that are even possible, so do I need to compromise my dreams for reality?
+ Being a 1985 boat, we're missing some creature comforts..fridge..TV...is this really a big deal?
Ugh...so tired of my own thoughts right now (Boat: 1985 Hunter 34)
Last weekend a boat popped up from an old guy near me. More sq footage than we expected to ever own at our budget by 7ft LOA and I think he's just ready to downsize his life. I took a look and can't find any apparent critical issues. Engine and sails look great.
My issue is now I am finding myself paralyzed by my own doubts. Once reasoning says ok and the heart needs to kick in, how are you supposed to know the boat you're looking at is the right one? I'm afraid I've gotten myself stuck in an endless loop of what if. Have you experienced this?
What is rattling in my head:
+ The boat is older, so it needs some TLC both inside and out. It is, however right in my price range. Is it possible my expectations are off because of seeing too many new boats at boat shows?
+ The sleeping arrangement isn't ideal for a family of 4 but I can't afford a larger boat and monohulls kind of only have a few layouts that are even possible, so do I need to compromise my dreams for reality?
+ Being a 1985 boat, we're missing some creature comforts..fridge..TV...is this really a big deal?
Ugh...so tired of my own thoughts right now (Boat: 1985 Hunter 34)