Out of respect for Nancy Dryden, I'm posing this question in a new thread rather than hijacking the one where I found this link.
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I didn't read too far. Actually the following quote is from the first thread I followed, and I didn't follow it very far. (Heck it's hard to find the time for one forum).
If you can spare a moment, read a little of what Brady has to say and then consider my question.
What does cruising mean to you?
My name is Brady, and this is my 2nd season on the Rio. Because I tend to keep to myself, very few of you know me. However, I feel the need to respond to what has and has not happened over the last few days.
I am amazed with the lack of communication amongst us (the "cruising" gringos) who claim this as our community. The morning VHF net and this forum have provided very little open discussion, and it seems that the protection of the Rio's economy is the prevailing underlying theme. Are we not recreating, in some way, what we were trying to separate ourselves from—a system where special interests take precedence overall?
I have read so many arguments based on the contention that we deserve some special security over those who are true Guatemalans because our dollars have created and continue to sustain the economy. With such a view, are we not becoming just another branch of the elite who are provided with protection from a police and military force whose primary goal is to protect the wealthy? This does not put us more in touch with our neighbors, "the locals," but creates a greater gap between us.
Another often repeated view is that this is a freak occurrence in Guatemala, while back home (pick your city of choice) robbery, rape, pedophilia, murder, etc. happen on a daily basis." Those crimes undoubtedly happen here on a daily basis as well, but we hear little about them because much of it does not actually happen to us. Thus, these events become irrelevant in our plight for paradise. Crime for us is only an issue when we are directly affected. Comparing the crime rate of a city with a million+ people to this community of a few thousand, where crimes that do occur are rarely reported, is absurd. Another often-repeated sentiment is that "this could happen anywhere." We are not talking about anywhere. We are talking about here, the Rio Dulce. We are not talking about what COULD happen; we are talking about what IS happening.
There seem to be a number of ways that people define what Cruising means.
Is cruising simply taking ones lifestyle and values to another part of the world, settling down and expecting everything to run just as smoothly as it did in the marina back at home?
Doesn't the word itself imply movement?
I can readily understand why some fall in love with a place and decide to settle down there. But to my way of thinking, at that point, they're not cruising anymore.
I can easily relate to having to stay somewhere long enough to regroup and prepare for the next leg of ones voyage and I understand that communities naturally seem to form wherever there are like minds. But it seems to me that there should be a rotation of community members. No one should stay forever and still be considered cruising.
Brady's line "Are we not recreating, in some way, what we were trying to separate ourselves from"
really struck me.
It's a real drag that bad *** happens in beautiful places, but in my experience, if you don't stay too long there's a much smaller chance that bad *** is gonna happen to you.
What do you think?