Stede,
Thank you for the advice!
I myself havent been on a large boat before but I can tell ya right now that I am the least picky person in the world. I always find my way around the negative things

another good thing is, we don''t have a farm to sell, we are tied down by nothing, except her chihuahua (spelling?) as for storms and such.... I LOVE storms, yet I will admit I would probably stress out and walk the plank if I were to deal with things breaking all the time. My lifestyle has always been overly full of unpleasent surprises, but at least it will be an adventure nonetheless. I think our main reason for leaving is, there is nothing that we''ll risk,miss, or sacrifice if we go... and I suppose if we don''t like it, we could just find a small island and work in the local pub.
(hey, at least I am being optimistic about it

LoL
thank you for your help Stede.
more advice/comments/ideas would be appreciated for you guys,
thankyou in advance
Jared