If it comes to that, it's likely I'll give you reason to regret your hasty judgement. OTOH, you will want the judge to understand the law and consider only the facts, rather than rely on a forum board's mob-sense of vindictiveness and "the odds" of reality versus fancy.
The better question is, if you were a banker in the 90's and 2000's, should we let you keep your sailboat?
I don't understand either of your comments but I do commend you for keeping an open mind and not wanting to rush to judgment. On the other hand, she was caught with her hand in the proverbial cookie jar. Is there some reason for reasonable doubt that I missed?