Senior Smart Aleck
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Richmond, Virginia
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Nice try playing the victim!
Abusers always minimize their behavior and always apologize for their abuse; victims rationalize away the abuse, "Oh, she just gets upset easily", "She was just worried about our safety..", "I know she "adores" me, even though she yells at me."
Abuse runs both ways, male on female, and female on male. Unfortunately, abusers and victims seek each other out, so this pair is probably destined for each other.
Lady, your marriage needs counseling. I hope you seek it out.