
01-21-2012
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Danvers, ma
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Congrats Laura! Honestly, I cant understand this thing about her age. If she was mature enough and sensible enough, why couldn't she go? History is filled with many examples of mariners who started their careers as cabin boys around the same age (link: Michael A. Healy - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia).
This "cult of the child" is not an old concept; it only arose in the Victorian era, and then only for landed gentry. Just look at pictures from 1911 and see who was operating the printing presses and commercial looms. (link: http://www.loc.gov/exhibits/young/images/y24.jpg and link: American Child Labour c.1900-1937, by Lewis Wickes Hines | Retronaut)
As the father of a 5yr old and a 6 month old, I have certainly had my moments of angst. But, if my kid wanted to do something bold, I would support them. Personally, it's been interesting learning to let go and let my 5 year old have the run of out very small local ski hill while I teach skiing. But, I know that he's sensible enough to not crash into a tree. In the meantime, he gets to meet new people, learn to socialize, learn to use money to buy snacks etc. If he came to me at age 12-14 and said that he wanted to sail to Bermuda, I would do what i could to support him....and perhaps find way to join him ;-)
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