Sunflower,
I have lived in South Florida most of my life, I craved a speed boat for the longest time, until I realied how much it would take to feed it. Being a 100% disabled Viet Nam Veteran, I had unlimited time, yet very limited resources.
I went searching a sailboat and found and Oday 25 in my price range, from the time the owner opened the main and the
jib and cut the motor I was hooked, I spent 350+ days a year for the next 8 years trying to knock it down, I have to say I agree with Foolish Muse, it didn't matter if it was blowing 50knotts, if I was sitting in the cabin of that boat I was happy, I soon found a sunfish that I piece mealed together with a Phantom sail(wich was abpout 20% bigger than a sunfish sail) the days it was just too big to sail in the gulf I stayed in Naples bay and sailed Ball's Up, there were days when I hiked out as far as I could and would be running with the wave runners.
A bigger boat gives you more options with stronger wind, and comfort, but the passion is either there or its not. for me 30 degree's heeled as close hauled as I can get is te rush I love. I will be buying my 35 ft Morgan on the 4th of April and I can Hardly sleep at night waiting for the current owner to finish their trip so they can hand her over!
John