The realtionship to the Captain is none of yours or anyones elses business. I did not feel necessary as it made no difference in what I wrote or the opinions I had. I only recently reveleaed what I did to explain why I was not myself in tone my posting and why my postings appeared to be hypocritical in TONE
with what was my normal way of posting. It was pointed out by a friend of mine here publically and I took it to heart. I now recognize that I have gotten into the same crap I was fighting against and was explaining where that might have come from. No more no less.
Just a suggestion, the whole story up front will probably get fewer attacks to the postings
I never felt it was relevant for me to tell you about my friendship with Wallbridge or his family. It had nothing to do with what i posted as no one really wanted to listen or wanted to beleive the type man he was. People had made their mind up and because of the mistake he made a tidal wave of negative opinions and allegations were unleased about his character. All I could hope or say was that we should not rush to judge and let all the facts come out, which I still wholeheartedly beleive. None of this absolves him of the fact he left the safe shore toward an impending storm.
My posting my realtionship would have surely brought riducule as well as the avalanche of negativeism from you and others. I didnt need that just like his famnily and other friends dont. If you notice, very few of his other true friends have spoken out. wonder why? Maybe we all know it makes no difference to others.
Thanks for the suggestion, but forgive me for not listening to you. In the past you have shown to try and find fault with everything I have posted whether here or in other threads. I tend listen to my collegues/ friends ( like Mainesail) who knows me and has met me and even PCP who I agrue with but respect) as they dont have an agenda like you appear to.
Try and keep your comments on the topics and not direct them toward me personally by couching them as your "lessons of life:" and what to do and I will do the same for you. Your opinion doesnt have any validity to me and it appears mine doesnt for you. See I already know you do not have my best interests at heart. So lets just agree to give everyone else a rest and not have to listen to this childish personal advice chatter.