Get out much? I see a smiley at the end of what you specifically quoted of mine.
So, the nut job can be humorous, but you don't find the retort funny?
I couldn't care less what the actual back story is. I thought this was all supposed to be funny and to most, actually seems to be. You taking her plight personally or trying to make some other point?
Okay minne, I apparently misinterpreted your attempt at humour, what with the smiley at the end of nutjob and all.
IMaybe if you need to add a smiley, maybe it really isn't funny.
and maybe, if you continue using the nutjob label, maybe you're not really being funny?
(hey, in any event, aren't you one of those folks who deplores namecalling on sailnet?)
So maybe you can show me the humour in this:
"Once others see how maturely she deals with separation, she should/will be avoided going forward to."
Maybe THAT was the part where you come across as judgmental. or maybe that was the funny part.
I'm not trying to make a point. I'm trying to figure out yours.