Queen,
The so-called "chicken gybe" is another term for
wearing sail, the manuever whereby an actual gybe is avoided by turing
into the wind, across the eye of the wind, and then easing onto the new desired downwind course. You may find that it is necessary to haul in the sheets in order to drive the boat into the wind if you want enough boatspeed to accomplish the tack, then ease sheets after the tack.
Depending on your crew, your experience, and the particular boat, you can perform this manuever in one graceful turn: helmsman slowly bringing the bow into the wind and handling the mainsheet & crew on the jibsheets; or in stages, momentarily achieving a close reach, then going for the tack, since a lot is going on all at once.
In a
dinghy, tacking from a close reach means that just when you get the bow across the wind, you will likely have lost most of your boatspeed, which has the effect of "pivoting" the boat through the tack, and keeps the acreage required to complete the manuever to a minimum. Of course, you still need enough inertia to accomplish the tack. A little practice will reveal the best procedure for you.
There is nothing unseaman-like about wearing sail. It's the right choice when the conditions out-gun your skills. Whenever I see it done I never think "chicken." I always admire the well-performed manuever and the prudent skipper.
Continue to practice gybes in light conditions, and eventually you will be able to gybe confidently when you used to choose to wear sail. Until then, wear sail, and stay dry.