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Looking for Companionship... This forum is specifically designed for sailors who are looking for someone to spend their lives with - those who also have a passion for the sea.


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Hello there
I am looking for a mature cook/crew /friend lady
In summer I sail Pac NW and spend some time in Vancouver in my apartment and some time cruising
Desolation Sound and Gulf Islands in my Peterson 35 boat
In Fall I visit my condo in Ft Myers FL
In winter I cruise Caribbean Isles in my Benetau 43 like 1.Trinidad 2.Grenada 3.Carricou 4.Canouan 5.Tobago Cays,6.Bequia 7. St Vincent 8.St Lucia,9.Martinique, 10Saints.11. Guadelupe 12 Nevis
13. St Kitts 14.St Martin 15.Virgins, subject to favorable winds
My wife died.,&for the last 8 years I sailed with a good crew.cook.friend lady
but she recently turned 60 and decided to retire on land in Domenica
but I want to keep on sailing /cruising
it keeps me in good shape and i enjoy it
so I look for a mature cook /crew/friend lady that likes my lifestyle
I am a senior skipper w 40000 bluewater miles,
In between I am writing a book ,
I look for , Enthusiastic, good-natured, sense humour, but definitely No alcoholics .No smokers, No drugs. Ok light occasional drinker, ( Prefer some boating experience , but no experience ok if willing to learn), Pl state details, availability, email, phone,. Letís exchange refs , and jpg pict. and email
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Re: Want Mature Cook/Crew/Friend Lady

After all these years on Sailnet, this is really over the top.

Take your personal want ad to Harmony dot com or Craigslist. Anything is better than sailnet. I hate to see Sailnet degenerates to a Dating Site.

Oh well, may be I am just too old for the new generations - any thing goes.
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Good Luck Jolly Cruiser.
I found one like you are looking for, but I married her.
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Re: Want Mature Cook/Crew/Friend Lady

rockDAWG, I do believe this is a sailing oriented forum. There's even a section titled "Crew Wanted" and this gentleman found it. His first post ended up in the right place, and it's better than a lot of other first posts. I don't think he deserves to be told off like you just did.

jollycruiser, not all of us are of the same personality as rockDAWG. We're quite a friendly forum (for the most part). I hope you're able to find someone to share your interests with.
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Re: Want Mature Cook/Crew/Friend Lady

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After all these years on Sailnet, this is really over the top.

Take your personal want ad to Harmony dot com or Craigslist. Anything is better than sailnet. I hate to see Sailnet degenerates to a Dating Site.

Oh well, may be I am just too old for the new generations - any thing goes.
If the picture jollycruiser attached in his post is of himself, I don't think he qualifies as a member of a "new generation". Although he appears to be young at heart.
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rockDAWG, I do believe this is a sailing oriented forum. There's even a section titled "Crew Wanted" and this gentleman found it. His first post ended up in the right place, and it's better than a lot of other first posts. I don't think he deserves to be told off like you just did.

jollycruiser, not all of us are of the same personality as rockDAWG. We're quite a friendly forum (for the most part). I hope you're able to find someone to share your interests with.
You certainly entitle your opinion. Unless Sailnet has changed to become a dating site. This type of personal ad is inappropriate and will dilute the genuine crew wanted notices on the site.

If you search the old posts, this type ad never ends well. There are plenty of personal sites for the OP to use. Why here, keep it clean and use it for promoting sailing.

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You certainly entitle your opinion. Unless Sailnet has changed to become a dating site. This type of personal ad is inappropriate and will dilute the genuine crew wanted notices on the site.

If you search the old posts, this type ad never ends well. There are plenty of personal sites for the OP to use. Why here, keep it clean and use it for promoting sailing.

Have you bothered to look at the ads in the border around the web page? Much of it is dating ads.
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Re: Want Mature Cook/Crew/Friend Lady

Just for the record, the moderators have taken a look at this thread. As a group we believe that Jollycruiser's crew search, even if it is gender specific, appears to be consistent with the reason that SailNet has a 'Crew Wanted' forum. Personnally, I admire Jollycruiser's continued interest in cruising as a self-described "senior skipper".

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Re: Want Mature Cook/Crew/Friend Lady

Plus, the OP is looking for a mature woman, not the usual suspects' request for a mid-20s, lithe, tan, blonde, supple, mute female contortionist, who is openmided, adventurous and free wheeling, on top of being a good cook, maid and sailor, capable of hoisting a 200 lb. anchor.

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Re: Want Mature Cook/Crew/Friend Lady

Jolly Cruiser is promoting sailing and life style in a way that a sail neuter with a 23 footer in his drive way would never understand. If I were looking for a gun enthusiast I wouldn't start with church groups .(at least in Can.) [ My vessel has a hydraulic wench so crew doesn't need the attribute listed above.]
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