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Living aboard - and sex

162K views 412 replies 149 participants last post by  sailcay 
#1 ·
Why doesn't anyone talk about the issues of sex on a boat? Are there any issues? Such as noise, privacy, and all the other stuff?

It's something is going with cruising and nobody talks about it.
 
#255 ·
Time to put on my moderator hat...

We have about reached the point (or long exceeded it) where this thread has crossed over the line of what I find acceptable on this forum. What could have, maybe, possibly, with a lot of imagination, been an argueably beneficial discussion has basically turned into the gutter.

This is Sailnet, not PlayboyNet, and my patience for this thread is gone if the participants cannot find a way to be much more modest and discreet. In fact, it may just dissapear anyways. I am not trying to be a prude or limit your ability to discuss the natural aspects of propogation of species, but try to remember we have women and some children (and even a bashful old dad sitting right here) who cringes when you guys mention some of these things. G or PG only - and with little imagination to get there.

- CD
 
#256 ·
I personally always get really really scared when you use the red pen....:eek: :eek:

There could be a vaild discussion here somewhere now every bit innuendo and toilet humour is done with, but its probably a discussion limited in it's scope on here on Sailnet.

I mean 'how do you have sex on a boat??' Well pretty much the same way you do every well else....end of discussion...

Have I had great experiences that have involved both boat and female?
Well yes but if I start recalling them here in detail both my beloved wife, previous girlfriends and CD with his angry red writing are going to rightfully kick my ass so once again end of discussion.

From here what else is there to say?
 
#259 ·
I'm just surprised that no one typed the standard line: If there are no pictures, then it didn't happen.

Seriously, there's a worthwhile thread here somewhere. Maybe the focus should be how how you set things up to ensure privacy, etc.
 
#261 ·
Just joined the community, in terms of posting. I didn't know this was a sex site. Seriously, it's a great site with a wealth of info. I hoping to be a liveaboard on a trawler. Hope you guys don't mind a non-sailing member joining the group.
Many sailors move to trawlers as they get older, you're just skipping ahead maybe.

So you mean to say you've NEVER sailed a boat? Ever been on a sailboat?

Don't trawlers have steadying sails on them?
 
#265 ·
I don't think any of my marina neighbors have ever noticed our onboard activities. However, there was one early Saturday morning when I was still dating this rather tall girl who decided things would be more comfortable if she just sat up with her head sticking out of the forward hatch.

That was working great until the old guy who walked the dock for exercise every morning showed up and decided to stop and have a 5-minute conversation with her.
 
#275 ·
I've been out sailng in the middle of the day in a area where there are usually alot of boats. Right next to ICW in Barnegat Bay. I see this older guy in a center console fishing boat just hammering away on this woman. Standing right there in the front of the boat, not even trying to be discreet or hide it in any way. I mean kudos to that guy but I didn't really need to see all of his running rigging swinging all over the place.

I was gonna take some pics for Smack cause I know he's into that stuff. Sorry Smack I'll get em next time
 
#289 ·
DF-

I'm saying that many women look at a 30 foot sailboat the way that they'd look at a cramped RV- and say "no thanks". You're the "special" kind of woman I'm talking about, who doesn't let the surroundings dictate everything.

Yes, flowers die but the event was special enough that she pressed and preserved them.

Candy may seem cliche, but she likes it. Especially chocolate covered strawberries, fed by me.

You're right, these things weren't necessary but they enhanced the mood and made the event better.

MDbee-

I have a decent success rate. This was taken from experience, not the hypothetical. :D
 
#293 ·
FYI... the same "things" that work on land, work on a boat.

It might be your scent, it might be your touch, it might be your voice, it might be your attitude... whatever it is that ignites the passion onboard, would most likely have also worked on land, or in a plane, or on the moon. Women and men like to do these things with the people they are attracted to.

So, the bottom line is that there must be a mutual attraction of a sufficient quantity to superscede whatever might be limiting the natural tendency to go for it, if anything is.
 
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