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|06-03-2010 12:11 AM|
My granddaughter hasn't been on the boat this year (she lives 450 miles away) but last year we went out several times. We did some small things, rope, and toy boats etc. But most important, we made short sails, about 1½ hours. The object is to have a positive experience so she wants to come back.
My best all time trick I am saving until she is about 5. We did this with my daughter and it remains one of her all time kid memories and she is 38. We had a 5½ birthday party. We planned it, met all the family at a remote dock and she got presents and we had cake etc, My daughter still thinks it was her coolest birthday party ever.
|06-02-2010 10:14 AM|
|T37Chef||We have two little toy boats with about 30 feet of string attached...let it out...pull it in...let it out...pull it in...good for about an hour of entertainment|
|06-02-2010 07:26 AM|
|hazmat17||my wife reminds me that the surprise bag also contains sticker books (which we don't usually do at home) and toy binoculars.|
|06-02-2010 05:59 AM|
|CapnA||We always keep a bunch of "dollar store specials" down at the boat for our daughter. Things like little rubber dinosaurs, plastic animals and my little pony, etc. Basically, small cheap toys that she can use as a group. Also, we keep paper and crayons. Our one rule is that the boat toys are not permitted to come home. This usually results in a bit of begging after a day of sailing, but it seems to make the toys more "special".|
|06-02-2010 12:01 AM|
My boat partner has 2 boys (14 and 7). When the younger boy was aboard he wanted to bring some toys along - transformers. Once on board the parents found that using our bucket with a lanyard on it they could bring bucket fulls of river water aboard and splash it out in the cockpit, creating a small wading pool/bathtub for the youngster that would quickly drain. Some things that do not seem like toys to us may provide some amusement for the youngsters. The trick is choosing which boat objects are really safe to be toys for youngsters.
It is good of you to take your children out sailing with you. I wish my boat partner's 14 y.o. would come out more but he wont come out without a friend his age along. You have heard the phrase: "Less is more" but sometimes with kids: "More is less" applies as two of the same age can occupy each other quite well. Short a play date? Bring one of your dogs along!
|06-01-2010 09:15 PM|
bring a friend
My crew consists of an almost 5 and almost 2 year old girls. The oldest has been sailing since 1 year old.
The "surprise bag" contains:
fun notebooks (shaped like a dog and a monkey) and crayons for coloring, the ~2 year old needs to be supervised or the cockpit turns purple.
books (board books for the little one, paper for the older)
"magic" magic markers, that only write on special coloring books - god only knows what chemical is in them, but they claim to be "non toxic" So far no ill effects on yacht or child.
And the big hit - glow stick jewelry for night time adventures (we haven't sailed at night, but have been on the boat for some fireworks).
As previously mentioned the "nautical toys" are fun - a sail tie, a short length of line, the boat cushions etc. The 2 year old loves to help steer the boat.
The boat toys are left on the boat - and are "new" every weekend - kind of like visiting a friend's house - all the different toys to play with.
Now that I've fooled you into thinking I'm Super Nanny - I'll let you in on a little secret. We never sail alone with the kids. My wife is still coming up to speed on sailing/boat handling, and is nervous if I were to go overboard, she wouldn't be able to handle the boat & the children. So, we bring along family and/or friends. An extra set of hands is a huge help to keep the kids entertained (and lets my wife relax and enjoy the boat). I usually hang with the kids, and the extra adult(s) crew while my wife skippers.
We also tend to keep the trips on the shorter side - so far only day sails generally only 1/2 day as we try to time the Merrimac River currents. Since we sail out of Newburyport, we usually experience "town" before or after - ice cream, the playground etc. We've been getting requests for a trip to the beach (we can dinghy out to Plum Island). This past weekend we went to the boat for a "picnic" -The 5 year old was as excited as dad to get a new grille for the boat this spring - we let her pick the menu - Burgers and "speckled" (sour cream & onion) chips. She's already requested the next meal - pizza. I guess I'll have to get the new propane regulator hooked up soon.
The ~2 year old screams "Boat, Daddy Boat" every time she sees one (on or off the water). The ~5 year old is really enjoying it this season. She's old enough now to play in the main saloon while under sail (we have her sit on the cabin sole so she doesn't take a spill if we hit a large wake.
As others have mentioned - keep the kids invovled in the planning process, what are we going to do when we get to the destination, what's on the menu etc.
You'll notice a big difference next season in how much more independent your daughter is. Just tough it out this season.
|06-01-2010 05:01 PM|
1) Something with lots of nobs and lights...that clicks , squeals and pops... the SSB/Ham radio comes to mind...
2) A brother/Sister...they click, pop, squeel and light up when their nobs are pulled too.
One of Martys ( Blt2ski ) crew members use to grab her sisters little feet and pull baby sister off the couch to see what kind of fuss she would make hitting the floor as a 2 1/2 year old....great fun!
|06-01-2010 04:47 PM|
|Fitz87||I have boys but my youngest was about that age when we got our current boat. He had a bunch of small plastic animals and would play endless games trapping them with the gear hammock in the V berth. I also keep markers and a giant pad of paper in the nav-desk. They know it's there and usually go right for that now. Without a doubt though their favorite thing is to play in the companionway - climb - swing - fall - cry - repeat!|
|06-01-2010 12:56 PM|
Nothing! It can't be done!!
3.5 year old girls don't belong on a boat, so I guess that you will have to sell her (the boat, not the daughter - although I can think of one member that might make an offer for your daughter ).
You are in luck! I just happen to know someone looking for a boat.
Seriously, I agree with JimHawkins. She needs a small area of responsibility on board. Give her a job, and lavish praise on her for doing it well.
Here is one idea: have her plan what you will do when you go ashore (Jewell / Damariscove/Eagle Islands). Help her to understand that half the fun of sailing is planning what you are going to do.
Put her in charge of watching out for motorboats, Rocna Anchors, Ketches and Sloops. Give her a notebook, and have her keep a running tally.
|06-01-2010 12:28 PM|
Ours (7,5,3) took over the forward cabin (sort of a v-berth but they're singles). We just put together a sterilite box of assorted toys: Barbie, littlest petshop etc. and they play for quite a while. N.B. no teeny parts or you'll be finding them in the bilge for years afterwards. With the oldest being 7 they're just doing imaginativ play and are not too interested in formal games unless we're doing the game with them.
As much as I hate it, I may break down and get a portable DVD player- but not yet.
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