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09-21-2012 10:32 AM
Re: im going to get out of this rut

I keep two sunfish in the back yard near the water. I make myself take a break one evening a week and shove off for a short sail on my Sunfish. I have found nothing relaxes me more.
09-21-2012 09:18 AM
Re: im going to get out of this rut

Sailing, even for a short time, can change your whole mood and attitude.

I remember back a couple of decades before we chucked it all and climbed aboard for a decade and a half, when I was in outside sales. When I was having a bad morning, I would make sure my last call before lunch was near the marina where I kept my boat. Climbing aboard, with a sandwich and a soft drink, I would untie the lines, start the engine and head out on the lake.

Admittedly, I felt a little silly sailing in a three piece suit, and admittedly, my lunch hour lasted a little longer than an hour. But when I got back, the rest of my day always went much better. A salesman in a good mood is a much better salesman than a grouchy one.

We recently sold our boat that we lived on for 15 years and are buying a home ashore. I don't think I'll regret it - well, maybe, I won't - but there's no question I'll miss it.

Go sailing. It helps.
09-21-2012 08:38 AM
Re: im going to get out of this rut

Life is full of unexpected changes, ask me 7 years ago if I ever thought I would be a single parent raising 4 children on his own, then I would have said you were crazy. Ask me last year if after working my socks off if I would be recovering from having to have cancer treatment I would have laughed at you. Life is for living, whatever happens take it by the b*lls and run with it. Get out there and live every moment, whats that quote I have come to love.
"the regrets I have for what I have done, will temper with time, the regrets for what I have not done, for these I will be always be inconsolable for!"
Get out there let your hair down and live it to the limits, thats my life plan :-)
09-21-2012 12:03 AM
Re: im going to get out of this rut

Take a day off and go sailing...not all education will be found behind a desk or with an instructor/teacher/professor. Follow your plan and let mother nature take you where she wants you to go.....Think of it as a day with mother nature as your teacher!........
09-20-2012 11:27 PM
Re: im going to get out of this rut

Buddy in ten years time you will wish you could have some more of this very rut you are in now.
09-20-2012 10:06 PM
Re: im going to get out of this rut

Keep that attitude, life has a way becoming monotonous. A positive attitude and touch of a free spirit will go a long way to keeping you young.


Originally Posted by smallboatlover View Post
so lately ive bin feeling bored with life same stuff every day school then sailing the same places being back at the same time doing the smae thing every day. And i hate doing this. this weekend im getting out of this rut im taking a day off from every thing and leaving for a trip leaving at 530-6 in the moring and letting the wind take me were ever it does. just a day trip but im breaking out of the rut any one else feel this way?
09-20-2012 09:43 PM
Re: im going to get out of this rut

Everyone needs to take a mental health day.
09-20-2012 09:30 PM
Re: im going to get out of this rut

Getting an education in a trade, is still an education. Learning a trade may not be an education.

But let's be clear. With our economy not creating enough new jobs and seniors not departing the workforce, kids are suffering, whether in the trades or graduating college.

However, the unemployment rate of adults with a college education is only around 4%, which is full employment.

Don't ignore it.
09-20-2012 09:23 PM
Re: im going to get out of this rut

Get out and go. Never mind an over-hyped college degree that you won't be able to use because there are no jobs waiting for you. Learn a good trade and take it with you when you set sail.
09-20-2012 10:44 AM
Re: im going to get out of this rut

It is amazing what a different mind-set I have when I go day sailing w/o time limits. If I know I only have a few hours (or would feel guilty if I don't get back), I continously rush. I just relax more if I don't have to get back at any particular time.
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