The original figures for displacement and ballast that you gave (32K and 8K) yield the figure of 40,000 lbs. Think of all of the other stuff aboard a 41' boat though: tanks (fuel and water), masts and
rigging,
anchors, plumbing et, etc, etc. Then 55,000 lbs does not sound so outlandish unless it was in kilograms rather than pounds.
As for how much ballast you have, it sounds like you have a 1:4 ballast/displacement ratio if your initial figures are even close.
I would tend to believe the travel lift scale in terms of overall weight of the boat but that does not necessarily indicate how much of the weight is in the 'ballast'.
Sounds like a fun boat. Enjoy.