DirkJ,
Guten Tag, mein Freund!
Regarding commands used for anchoring, we don''t use very many "standard commands". The crew is instructed as to what actions are required, then hand signals are used.
For hoisting sails, the skipper might say:
"turn into the wind", "hoist the main (sail)", "tighter" (to adjust the luff tension), "OK" (when it is tight enough).
For docking, you might say: "prepare to dock port (or starboard) side to", "deploy
fenders", "prepare the bow, stern, and forward/after spring
lines", "Johann, to the foredeck", "Willi, handle the stern
line", Greta, stand by with the forward spring"
I hope this helps a little. Good luck.
Duane