Cardiacpaul...
Paul, I don't take it personally that you have a point of view that differs from mine but since you took the time to post in my thread let me clear up a misconception.
Personal disclaimer. I am a first time boat owner. I was looking for something structurally sound without all the bells and whistles (radar, chartplotter…

and a running diesel would have been a plus. I have background experience with gas engines and carpentry.
This boat sort of fell into my lap as the result of a second offer through eBay and I paid just over $5,600 for it. I had no intention of buying a boat until next spring and was looking at spending up to $45,000 on a Niagara 35. This boat also came with an insurance survey that was 11 months old done by a surveyor to provide risk assessment for insurance purposes. The insurance survey listed some tabbing issues as the only structural repair needed as a precursor to extended sailing. The buyer I purchased the boat from had intended to sail it back to Holland.
I am not a babe in the woods nor do I consider myself naive, yes I do understand that the seller could have been lying about their intentions for the boat. The seller was very open though providing me the insurance survey, a copy of the bill of sale from when he purchased the boat, receipts from money he had invested in repairs and parts… I called the survey company to verify that this was not a forged document and they confirmed the survey number, marina and boat name. The seller was selling the boat for almost half of what they paid for it and with almost $3,000 in parts and repairs. This does not include the work done by the person that sold the boat to the previous owner as I had receipts from them too.
I looked into the possibility of hiring a marine surveyor to check this boat before I bought it and the best price I could find was $725, and that was talked down from $825 ($25 per foot). That is 13% of the purchase price of the boat! That is also equal to the winter storage fees for the boat, or the Canadian taxes due on the boat. I can justify paying $900 for a survey on a $45,000 Niagara 35, which is 2% of the total cost of the boat. I researched the boat and found that there was no cored hull so I knew that this would not be an issue, I also found that despite some known problems these boats were well suited for what I wanted to do. Now since I had an insurance survey that satisfied the number one point that the boat was structurally sound and in that report I found that the mast was in good shape, the sails were in good shape, the standing rigging was new, there was a new fuel tank, new batteries, new holding tank and well installed head among other positives I decided to purchase the boat. Did I need a hired professional with an unbiased opinion as to the current condition of the vessel? No, I did my research and knew going in that there would be problems to deal with. Did I know that there were going to be problems? Of course, the boat had been on dry land for 5 years. But I reiterate the point that it met my basic requirements and I had done my homework.
Here is where I do take offense to your post, this boat was inexpensive and I did get a deal. I am looking forward to putting in some elbow grease and I do have a 'do it myself' attitude, always have. Every project I start gets finished properly as I take pride in doing a proper job. All great things.
That being said I am here looking for expertise from boat owners that have tackled these types of problems. You are right, I am looking for help, I came to a website devoted to boating then navigated to the public forum dedicated to gear and maintenance. I posted a question, not an invitation for someone to come sand my gel coat, paint my deck or buy me a book explaining the process. You will notice that I have posted nothing asking about wood working, there is a problem with some of the teak but since I have experience with wood working I can tackle that myself. Since I have no experience with gel coat repair I thought the best thing to do was ask for some guidance. I also bought Dan Casey's Complete Illustrated Sailboat Maintenance Manual. I was just looking for any additional information that someone who has done this repair might want to share.
In your opinion after I complete the repairs to the deck those repairs will far outweigh the value of the boat? Maybe but the value of the repair to me is more than just what I sell the boat for, I will gain firsthand experience repairing and maintaining the deck of a sail boat and I will be able to make my mistakes on a boat that I paid $5,600 for, not a boat I invest a lot more money into. Heck, I might pick 3 different repair techniques and divide the deck into 3 sections and see what works the best. Yes I do have a stack of power tools as well as a sanding block, sand paper and my hands. I don't have the experience but that is why I came here, to find out what to watch out for and what to expect. Do I have time? Oodles of it, I am 30 and lucky enough to get paid very well but only work 40 hours a week. I want to retire in 2 years and sail away taking a few years off while I am young. I have enough money in the bank to live nicely on my boat for 5 years without touching my retirement funds. If I have to delay for a year while I finish the deck the only thing that will grow will be the cruising kitty. I have also researched repair yards where I am to allow me the ability to perform needed work before I leave.
Why would I assume that I could buy Awlgrip at Walmart? For that matter why would I assume that anything I tackle as a repair on a vessel I plan on entrusting with the safety on myself, friends or family would not be a chore? I am not about to feel angst applying it, I am going to prep a small area, follow the directions and apply it. Then I am going to allow it to set as per specifications and ensure proper setting before I move onto another area. After spending time as an assistant chef for my summers in high school I know the importance of prep and following a recipe. The only reason for apprehension would be poor prep, not reading the instructions and not seeking out information before starting, I'm just saying.
Getting a 'fly by' from a professional would have given me no more information than I already have, I knew the deck was going to need work as I knew the other relevant issues that would need to be addressed. I also had a pretty good heads up that I was going to find other things that needed to be addressed. Assuming that I made an uninformed decision based on a thread where I was asking for my options as to how I should handle the deck issues doesn't show my ignorance. No where have I found that a surveyor would have given me direction on how to fix the issues I have with the deck and even if they had, I still would have checked out a second opinion. On quite the contrary I have been contacted by a previous owner of this very boat who had a professional marine survey done and the surveyor missed a critically important issue that could have put the boat and its crew into a deadly situation.
Again, I understand that you have a specific point of view and take no offense to that point of view; nor take anything you said personally. That being said, running down people posting in a public forum for 'help' when that forum is dedicated to sailing, where people come for advice and to share stories and then saying 'don't take it personally' is more than a little disingenuous. I understand and agree that in most situations a survey is a requirement of purchasing a boat, there are also situations where it is not needed. As you put it, I will chalk up the bulk of your post to a "half dead, cranky crippled old coot with too much time on my hands." and not take it personally.