Excellent post Jeff!
I know I have posted this before but I believe it is still very relevant..
To me this is a sad example of folks not getting the psychological treatment they probably should.
Sadly families & friends (the father in this case) enable this delusional behavior and in turn fuel wheever the underlying disorder is that detaches these individuals from REALITY. Sometimes it is as bad as bipolar disorder and sometimes it is just Forest Gump syndrome. All I know is these two were completely and utterly delusional or lower than Forest Gump on the intelligence totem pole..
I see this story as not much different than the
delusional arrogance/ignorance of the owner / builder of Raw Faith or Michael Calabrese the guy who anchored his Hunter on a lee shore during a hurricane, was arrested, then proceeded to take a crap in the police car.
IMHO it was the arrogant delusions of Robin Walbridge that actually killed others and that takes it to a whole other level. It is sad to me that folks like this are not getting the mental and psychological help they need and because of that they put other people in harms way.
If it is true that the USCG advised them not to go, and they ignored that advice, then there is surely no help for people like this. It really makes you afraid to even drive on the roads knowing there are people this blissfully ignorant out there.
The USCG actually stopped Raw Faith from going to sea numerous times but in the end the arrogant and delusional owner finally succeeded in sinking her.
I guess there is not all that much we can really do but sit back and watch it unfold like a bad soap opera...
Where this hits home for me???
Last summer I had a guy whom I felt the exact same way about. He was completely unfit, unprepared and ill equipped for an off shore voyage.
He had just purchased the boat from one of my customers and I flat out told him the vessel was in NO SHAPE for an off shore voyage and that he was risking his life making this voyage without some serious work needing to be done to the vessel. I was about as blunt as can be and did not candy coat it for him. I felt it my minimal duty. He was delusional too right up to the point of absurdity. It was very, very frustrating to watch this guy refuse any other possible option for moving this boat. Like the 10k eBay boat this was a low buck deal and a project boat in the works, but not yet done. The new owner had all the answers but knew none of the questions. It was pretty sad actually...
Long and short he ignored my advice about the vessels condition, the advice of the seller and of others and wound up losing the boat and needing the USCG to rescue him. He like so many
sailors, in recent history, and I use the term
sailors very, very loosely, simply used the Easy Button to get home.
Sadly there are people out there that really are this blind to REALITY and no matter how hard you try, or how well reasoned your case may be, they are simply too delusional to come back to Earth, let their feet touch down, and feel or grasp reality......
I suspect these recent trends represent more of what our society has become. A society where no one is every allowed to fail, is never told they are wrong, where everyone gets a trophy just for showing up and A through F grades have been tossed out the window to placate and not hurt the poor feelings of anyone.
We have lost touch of OWNERSHIP and PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY and it is sad, very, very sad...
Prepared? Experienced? Really?
"The charging units from the motor and our wind generator both failed, causing the auto pilot to not work; then the sails became torn, as I was trying to fix the problems," he wrote. "After that I started to motor. Then, the motor failed, making us dead in the water."
"I came here on New Year's Eve and worked on the boat since. We did have racing sails, but the racing headsails were not used. We had a one-season-old racing main that was in great condition, which we purchased before we left."
"After the EPIRB was activated, is when the conditions became very rough," McGlashan wrote. "Most people assume we set off the EPIRB because of the storm. That had nothing to do with it. We were stuck dead in the water unable to move it. It wasn't until the rescue was in full effect that the storm hit. I have had experience in rough conditions but not to the extreme every one has seen on the (Coast Guard) video. Those conditions came on just before the helicopter arrived."
"Those conditions came on."
Actually, those conditions were extremely well predicted.......
"The nicest way I can put it, is a bit pissed off after everything I went through to get this to happen," he said of acquiring the boat and planning the journey. "Then, to have so many problems, I got to get my head around it all."
And he's pissed off........? It his his damn fault!!! Lack of
ownership & personal responsibility runs rampant these days.... Sheesh.....