I'd like to add that there even some older men who fit that criteria. I'd like to consider myself in that group. My 'amazment' comes from seeing so few women climbing out of the 'traditional' box they cling to for security (??) No one said it's easy but kudos for trying and applause for succeeding and that's not gender orientated. Men too could use some self evaluation (I know ,cries of 'blasphemy'.